How To Text Girls

Discover the basics of how to text girls, plus some examples of how I text women in a fun and flirty way.

Hey, it’s Ciaran.

Most guys suck at texting girls.

They are either boring and predictable, too friendly or they’re too over-the-top with dirty talk.

It’s a tough balance to strike to inspire a woman to actually want to meet you for a date.

And it has got even tougher now so many other guys are messaging her on Tinder, Instagram and whatever other app.

In this guide, you’re going to learn how to stand out as the BEST guy she’s texting.

How To Text Girls: The Basics

Before we get into the juicy stuff, it’s important to know the basics of what types of messages bore a girl to tears.

Watch the video below and report back further down the page.

How To Text Girls Without Being Boring

The secret to texting girls without being boring is by showing an element of your personality in every message you send.

Instead of asking the same boring ‘getting to know you’ questions in every interaction, give her a taste of your flirting and your sense of humor. She should be getting a sense of what it would be like to hang out with you.

Instead of generic compliments, flirt subtly while giving her the space to chase you.

If you have no idea how to do that, watch the video below for a demonstration of how I do it.

How To Flirt Via Text (Without Going Too Far)

It’s important to be a bit flirtatious when texting a girl, otherwise she’s going to see you as a friend, rather than a sexual prospect.

At the same time, if you’re too full-on with your flirting, she’s going to be made too feel too easy and like there’s no space for her to chase you. That’s a great way to ensure you won’t get a date too.

It’s all about finding the balance. You can find some tips on how to do this in the video below.

Need Some Expert Help With Your Texting??

As part of my role as a dating coach, I am often helping my clients learn how to text girls in a fun way that makes them excited to come out for a date.

With my one-on-one clients, I am happy to read through their previous messages and show them where they were  going wrong. On top of that, I am happy to suggest what they could say to convince their current leads to meet them.

If you need some expert help with your messaging, click here to book a free 30-minute consultation call with me.

We’ll use this time to evaluate your current situation with girls and see whether you’d be a good fit for coaching.


Speak soon,