How To Open So People Want To Listen

If you’re wondering how to capture someone’s attention successfully and effectively, this is the guide for you.

Yo yo, this is Ciaran breaking down how you can open in a way that makes people want to listen to you.

Have the right vibe

The vibe you need to have for success is ‘This is happening and it’s gonna be awesome.’ Don’t apologise for yourself, either through your words, your body language,’or your tone of voice..

Square up and face them directly

Stand directly in front of her like a man. Don’t come in at the side because then you’ll just be perceived as inconsequential.

Speak loudly

If you speak quietly you’ll communicate that you’re not proud of what you’re doing and who you are. It’s much  better to be too loud than too quiet.

Smile and have good eye contact

Nuff said.

Speak with dynamic vocal tonality

Make sure your tonality is confident, masculine and powerful. Let her know that you’re a man she needs to listen to.

Swing through the open

Make sure you’re speaking for about 90% of the interaction in the beginning because you need to give her time to realise how awesome you are and invest into the conversation.

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