The 6 Rules Of Social Circle Game
A few years ago, we released several social circle game videos with Michael Sartain, and they all became very popular very quickly. One of these was about the rules of social circle game.
Originally, they were only known to people within Michael Sartain’s Men Of Action program. But thanks to the video, it has become known in the general pickup artist community too.
The Rules Of Social Circle Game
There are 6 rules of social circle game. These rules help you date more women while also staying out of trouble. If you do not follow or understand these rules, you will have a very hard time dating more women and without the unnecessary drama while maintaining an abundance and opportunistic social life.
Rule 1: We don’t pay attention to people’s words, only their actions.
Rule 2: All human behavior can be explained through evolutionary psychology.
Rule 3: The answer to your problems is almost always abundance.
Rule 4: Social media is fake… And I’m okay with that. We are social media producers not social media consumers.
Rule 5: We don’t talk shit about people behind their back. If someone is doing better than us then we learn from them.
Rule 6: You don’t need to qualify to anyone. No one needs to know who you’re sleeping with or how much money you make.
Rule 1 Of Social Circle Game: Don’t Listen To The Words
Don’t pay attention to people’s words, only their actions.
Ross Jeffries, despite his feisty disagreements with Michael Sartain, has been aware of the importance of women’s actions over their words since his early days. In 1992, Ross Jeffries famously appeared on NBC and stated:
‘There’s what women say they want. There’s what women think they want. And then there’s what they actually respond to… And what women actually respond to is not what they say they want.’
This doesn’t just apply to women or dating, it applies to all forms of life. People can lie. But their actions reveal their true intentions.
I remember plenty of times being told I was the ‘perfect candidate’ for the job I applied for during an interview. But then they didn’t hire me… Assholes.
And when I worked in sales, customers would say ‘I will think about it and come back later’. But I never saw them again… Fucking liars.
When I was younger, a girl told me we would meet up and have sex. But she never showed up… I literally walked miles to buy a condom from the nearest store, for nothing! Bitch.
People’s words don’t line up with their actions in general, and it’s very rare to genuinely find people who are men of their word. I, personally, like to be a man of my word. And society operates in a way where people actually get surprised when someone’s words and actions are 100% aligned, as people need constant reassurance that the thing that was said definitely is happening.
When someone says they will ‘let you know’, they probably won’t. They might forget. Their life might not depend on it. It might not matter to them later.
Pay attention to people’s actions instead.
Rule 2 Of Social Circle Game: Evolutionary Psychology
All human behavior can be explained through evolutionary psychology.
There are several innate things about humans. It’s normal to have a fear of falling, a fear of loud noises and a fear of experiencing pain.
Essentially, there are patterns in human behavior, just like there’s a pattern of people having 2 arms, 2 legs and 2 eyeballs.
When someone’s behavior confuses you, think about what mating advantage that behavior may have served their ancestors many thousands of years ago.
Rule 3 Of Social Circle Game: Abundance
The answer to your problems is almost always abundance.
…Unless you have a heroin addiction.
Remember that scene from The Wolf Of Wall Street where Jordan Belfort goes on an absolute fucking inspirational speech rampage?
‘Are you behind on your credit card bills? Good. Pick up the phone and start dialing. Is your landlord ready to evict you? Good. Pick up the phone and start dialing. Does your girlfriend think you’re a fucking worthless loser? Good. Pick up the phone and start dialing! I want you to deal with your problems by becoming rich!’
Jordan Belfort understood abundance in sales. But let’s apply it to dating…
Do you want to get your ex back? Good. Date more women.
Did you get rejected by a girl at the club? Good. Date more women.
Do you want an awesome girl in your life? Good. Date more women.
Did your girlfriend cheat on you? Good. Date more women.
Do you want to marry a good woman? Good. Date more women.
Do you want to have higher self esteem? Good. Date more women.
This could be endless. But ultimately when it comes to dating, the point of abundance is to date more women.
Rule 4 Of Social Circle Game: Social Media Is Fake
Social media is fake… And I’m okay with that. Be a social media producer and not a social media consumer.
This is where social circle game combines with message game.
If you can use social media to create opportunities for yourself or make money, then you have put social media to good use in your life.
The problem is that most people as a whole are just consumers on social media, never building a brand or a following or seeing any social benefit from their usage of social media. Most people end up wasting hours of their time every single day scrolling on social media.
The point isn’t that social media is bad, the point is that you have the choice to use it to your advantage instead of refusing to use social media, or using it in a way that has a negative impact on your life. You can gain thousands of followers on Facebook and Instagram, and have your social media do the work for you to enhance your social life as well as your dating life.
A lot of things you see on social media is fake. But the rewards are real.
Rule 5 Of Social Circle Game: Don’t Talk Shit
We don’t talk shit about people behind their back. If someone is doing better than us, learn from them.
Nobody is perfect, and every successful person has something to teach you if you’re willing to learn. Your jealousy and ignorance about someone who is more successful than you is an obstacle you are putting in front of yourself that prevents you from moving forward.
Haters try to bring people down to their level. Social circle gamers level up.
Rule 6 Of Social Circle Game: You Don’t Need To Qualify To Anyone
You don’t need to qualify to anyone. No one needs to know who you’re sleeping with or how much money you make.
Make people qualify to you and never brag. When people find out on their own who you are, it is so much more impactful.
When men brag about who they slept with, they are seeking validation from others. Bragging also puts you in a vulnerable position of oversharing information that also causes people to lose trust in you.
According to Michael Sartain, this rule is inspired by the first rule Biggie Smalls mentioned in the lyrics of Ten Crack Commandments.
Rule number uno, never let no one know
How much dough you hold, ’cause you know
The cheddar breed jealousy ‘specially
If that man fucked up, get yo’ ass stuck up
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