Ross Jeffries NLP Patterns
I asked Ross Jeffries how you can build sexual tension.
He laughed and said that there are so many NLP patterns and techniques for sexual tension. His personal favorite is what he called The Dream Pattern.
The Dream Pattern
Do you ever remember your dreams? Do you ever have a dream that keeps coming up because it’s so powerful?
[She says something]
Because I have this one dream… I only had it once, but it’s so familiar to me. I can close my eyes and I can feel it. Just everything about the dream. I can SEE ALL THE IMAGERY AS I TALK ABOUT IT, [Name].
So, it goes like this…
I’m looking for a place to live. I’m walking through these beautiful woods and I don’t know how well you can IMAGINE THIS AS I DESCRIBE IT… But they’re beautiful redwood trees, and they have the most rich, beautiful brownish-colored WOOD TO THEM. And the sky is blue and I can feel the scent of the fresh pine trees, and it’s absolutely beautiful. And I’m longing for a home; a place to live, where I see this cabin, and I instantly know it’s gonna be my home. Not a house, but a home. The difference is… A house is just a shelter, but a home is a place where you stop, and you get that feeling that says ‘you belong here‘, ‘this is where you wanna stay‘, ‘you never wanna leave because here’s where you must be‘.
So I see this cabin and it has a sign on it that says ‘for lease‘ with a phone number. And I know I should wait. But have you ever felt something that just feels so inviting, it feels so irresistible, you had to have it and you couldn’t wait for permission…? You just went for it. Me. Now.
As I continue to tell this story, I think you’ll find something interesting…
So I go and I open the door. Immediately, I know a woman lives there. It just has that female touch. The walls themselves seem special. It’s like there’s energy radiating from these special FEMININE WALLS.
Anyway. I walk in and immediately I know she’s a photographer because there are photographs all over the walls. There’s a big photograph at the end of the hallway; the end of the cabin that takes up the whole wall… Beautiful photograph. And on the coffee table there’s a big book that says Bali, and I open it up and there’s a picture of Bali. And the sand is so beautiful.
I don’t again know how well you can IMAGINE, PICTURE AND EXPERIENCE AS I DESCRIBE IT, but it’s white powdered sand. And I could even imagine walking through that powdered sand like a sugar donut, powdered, feeling the warmth against my feet, looking out at the ocean. The water is a crystal clear bluish green. And it’s just so tempting, I can imagine stepping out into that water, feeling its warmth SWIRLING AROUND MY LEGS, the warmth of the Sun warming my skin to a flush and a blush. It’s just so amazing.
And then all of a sudden she walks in the door. And there’s this instantaneous… THIS CONNECTION. And immediately, I can feel a bond of instant trust, [Name]. Because she wasn’t afraid of me at all. Rather than screaming or yelling, she looks a little startled but she says ‘hi, can I help you?‘.
And I said to her ‘you know, I know I should have waited, but it just seems so inviting, I just had to ENTER. OF COURSE (INTERCOURSE) I should have waited, but I just couldn’t… So I had to COME INSIDE. I hope you don’t mind‘.
And she said ‘no, no problem. I’m in a hurry. I’ve got to get to the airport, I forgot my bag. But let me show you around and I’ll fix you a cup of tea‘.
So we’re looking around at all the various pictures and we come to that picture I told you about, far on the wall… And suddenly, we stopped talking… And you could feel that excitement. You know, that special GROWING (GROIN) tension… Just before that first soft electric brush of the lips and you know something big’s about to GO DOWN HERE. And I sort of brush up against her and she brushes up against me, and we can feel the heat coming from each other’s bodies. But it’s just so intense we just break away… Because we don’t wanna get anything started that you have to go through with this.
So she says ‘anyway, listen. I gotta go. Here’s my card. Call me anytime‘.
And she leaves. I remember feeling… ‘Wow. I’m so turned on right now, because this feels so good. I’m glad she left because if she didn’t leave, I would have just FUCKED YOUR BRAINS OUT‘.
Delivering NLP Patterns Right
Ross Jeffries explained further that…
‘Once you get her attention and you begin to talk in that special rhythm that holds your focus, then she’ll stick with you. You have to pace it and gradually build up to it.’
Ross Jeffries also pointed out that at first you need to be priming her mind before getting sexual. He gets into a really ‘sensory rich description’ before getting into the sexual metaphor. He started by exciting her imagination first.
Ross Jeffries NLP Patterns
Ross Jeffries believes that seduction is about two things:
- Penetrating her mind with your ideas and suggestions
- Expanding her mind to include your suggestion
He gave an example of another NLP pattern…
When you wanna do something that makes you feel totally alive… Get your heart BEATING HARD, SO HARD INSIDE YOU… And time just flies by… What do you love to do, or what’s something you craved doing but you never let yourself dare?