What Happens When You Don’t Approach?

 What Happens When You Don’t Approach?

It’s more toxic than you may think…

Hey, it’s Ciaran.

Have you been taking enough steps to improve your dating life lately?

If not, this message is for you.

I know it can be uncomfortable cold-approaching women…

I understand it might be more difficult in the first few months of this ‘new normal’…

I know you’ll have to deal with rejections, rudeness, flakes, minor embarrassments…

But, let me tell you: the pain from non-participation is far worse.   

What happens when you don’t approach

When you see that beautiful woman walk past, you know what you should do. You now what you want to do. Yet, so many choose the ‘safe’ option of doing nothing.

Perhaps in this ‘new normal’ era, it’s even more common… Right now, you have the perfect excuse to pussy out.

When you do, you may feel temporary relief. You prevented yourself from maybe looking silly.

However, you’re also doing some serious long-term damage to your self-image.

Each time you fail to take action, you are showing yourself: “I am not worthy of having what I want. I am not good enough.”

I don’t deserve it.

When you continuously show yourself this, you start to believe it more and more.

You begin to feel worse and worse about yourself.

Because, deep down, you know what you need to be doing.

You know what your soul desires. Yet, you’re not stepping towards it.

That is corrosive.

What happens when you do approach

When you do approach, it’s not just you trying to meet a woman.

It’s also you showing yourself: “I exist. I deserve the things I want. I have the right to pursue my dreams.” 

That’s why guys feel so great about themselves once they start approaching consistently.

The more they show themselves that they deserve happiness, the more they start to believe it.

The more they believe it, the better they feel, the more success they experience.


Need a helping hand?

If you want to kick-start your ‘new normal’ by consistently approaching women and feeling amazing about yourself, I want to help you.

You can book a free telephone consultation with me by clicking here >>

In this call, we can discuss any issues or fears you have about approaching women. We’ll also create a roadmap to push
you towards the dating life you want.

But you have to be quick. Spaces are limited.

It would be great to hear from you


Ciaran Callam

I take men who don’t know how to meet women & give them an abundance they never dreamed possible. I take meek mice & turn them into wild lions. If you follow my instructions I’ll change your life, and that’s a fact.

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