My thoughts on when you should and shouldn’t approach a woman.
The initial approach. The first date butterflies. The thrill of a blossoming romance. The passionate first kiss. The ecstasy of seeing them naked. And having amazing sex. Again and again.
The excitement of hearing from her after a hard day. Hundreds of shared experiences. Thousands of tiny ways they make you smile.
Making mutual friends. Marriage. Children. A new human born with your ears and her eyes.
It could all be yours!
But if you bottle that initial approach, it’ll all blow into thin air.
How bizarre is that?! It’s actually quite intimidating.
Meeting that girl is sometimes a matter of seconds and inches.
That’s why I’d always recommend approaching a beautiful woman AS SOON AS YOU SEE HER.
It’s rarely intelligent to hesitate, even if you think you’re waiting for the perfect opportunity to speak to her. Because, for all you know, the opportunity could disappear completely.
Having said that, I made this video below explaining the BEST time to approach a woman – and what to do when that situation pops up.
But what if it’s a high-risk situation?
Maybe she’s with a group of friends and there’s a risk of embarrassment? Maybe there’s a man in that group who could be her boyfriend? Perhaps you’ll have to run to catch up with her – or speak over blaring loud live music.
Well, from now on, I want you to reframe these situations as GOOD.
Because, when you push past your fears and make that approach anyway, you typically realise that it wasn’t as bad as you thought it would be.
You prove to yourself that you were able to go for what you wanted, even with obstacles in the way.
Now, next time when you see your dream girl in that exact same situation, you’ll be able to approach with added self-belief.
Maybe that makes all the difference.
Either way, it’ll be way better than never knowing whether that woman was supposed to be the mother of your children.
What if her boyfriend IS there?
It’s happened to me. And it’ll eventually happen to you follow this advice.
Still, nothing bad has ever happened to me.
As long as you’re completely respectful and back off as soon as you find out she’s taken, you’ll be absolutely fine. It would take an absolute neanderthal of a man to get physical with you just for talking to his girlfriend, provided you didn’t provoke him at all afterwards.
There really is nothing to be afraid of.
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If you need help with any aspect of meeting women, whether it’s overcoming approach anxiety, discovering how to take her home or anything in between, you should snap up one of my free 30-minute Skype calls.
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