The Dating Coach Virginity Graph
For absolutely no reason whatsoever, we have put together a graph of when various dating coaches lost their virginity. Will this tell us something?
Dating Coach Virginity Graph

| Dating Coach | Age |
|---|---|
| Dan Bilzerian | 13 |
| Ice White | 14 |
| Mr Locario | 16 |
| Justin Marc | 17 |
| Markus Wolf | 17 |
| Michael Sartain | 19 |
| Beckster | 19 |
| Owen Cook | 19 |
| JT Tran | 20 |
| Mystery | 21 |
| Mike StemToStud | 21 |
Natural Dating Coaches
I remember being 11 years old and telling a friend of mine that I want to have sex at the age of 12. He laughed at me, as he should. The thing is, I already had my first kiss very early on. So my next area of exploration was merely sex.
Having lost my virginity in my early teen years, I was considered a ‘natural’ well before I even knew that pickup artistry was a thing.
By the age of 15, I was dating a 17 year old college girl. Every Friday, I would take two bags with me to high school. One for school, one for staying the night at the college girl’s house. People in my class noticed this, and would ask me why I have another bag or what’s inside it. I had spare clothes, a toothbrush, toothpaste, condoms and whatever else I needed.
While I wasn’t the most popular kid in high school, I did gain a reputation for being the fucking ‘Ice-dog’ as everyone eventually found out what I was doing on Fridays after school. And to make matters worse, the college girl’s cousin was in the same grade as me. Just a different class.
He got bullied because I was fucking his cousin. He slowly stopped being friends with me at some point, and tried to provoke a fight with me, and shoved me. But I never had anything against him or took it personally, so I didn’t fight back. I tried to be on good terms with everyone in general, and the people who were bullying him were the kind of people I tended to avoid. And he probably knew that. After all, I certainly wasn’t going around encouraging them to bombard him with comments like ‘Ice is fucking your cousin’ or ‘how does it feel knowing that Ice fucked your cousin?’.
Yeah, crazy childhood, really.
But not as crazy as Dan Bilzerian…
Dan Bilzerian lost his virginity at the age of 13 with a prostitute in Mexico. So that’s a bit different.
Hashim Locario Smith (Mr Locario) lost his virginity at the age of 16. Justin Marc and Markus Wolf lost their virginity at the age of 17.
10 Girls By 18
By the age of 16, I had sex without a condom for the first time, as one of the girls I dated at that age was on birth control.
Through sheer coincidence, this particular girl had just started attending my high school days after we started having sex. I met her in the Summer, as I was dating her best friend at the time.
On her first day at my school, one of the senior male teachers, also the gym teacher, saw her hugging and holding onto me as the bell rang at the end of recess. The gym teacher had the loudest personality of all teachers. And he, having already witnessed college girls (Not even including the one with the cousin in my grade) chanting my name outside school grounds during a gym class about a year before, decided to make a very loud comment in front of everyone. I can’t remember exactly what it was. But he sure had no problem expressing his intrusive thoughts.
By the age of 18, I managed to have sex with a total of 10 girls.
If I were to put into words how I managed to find success early on, I imagine it came down in part to the fact that I put fun first and already experienced my first kiss at a very young age. And so I probably radiated a different kind of confidence that just kept building on itself. I wasn’t specifically looking to get laid with as many women as possible. I was looking for love. And I was chasing a feeling.
Ultimately, the reason I wanted to learn game when I found out about it from a friend was simply to improve my relationships. I had no problem getting women. But I sure had a problem keeping one.
Late Bloomer Dating Coaches
Erik Von Markovik (Mystery), Mike StemToStud and JT Tran consider themselves late bloomers. They lost their virginity in their early 20s.
Mystery’s journey of trial and error helped grow the seduction community beyond Ross Jeffries’s Speed Seduction roots, grounding the pickup artist community even more through PUA books like The Game by Neil Strauss.
There’s nothing wrong with losing your virginity a little later on. It might just give you some interesting opportunities and a different path in life. The real question is… What are you doing about it?





