I have a solution for what to do when a girl is always late. It’s not for the faint-hearted, but it’s effective.
Hey, it’s Joe.
In Peru, women are always late.
Throughout the whole of South America, they’re always late.
Maybe throughout the whole world.
I personally can’t stand this, so I made a solution. It’s not for the faint-hearted. But it’s effective.
Step 1. Make it really clear how being late is the thing you hate the most
You think that would be enough, but it’s usually not. Not in Peru anyway.
Step 2. You double-book dates with two women at the same time*
Perhaps you arrange 30 minutes in between the dates. One woman will still be a few minutes late GUARANTEED (in Peru, anyway).
You’ll politely flake on this woman, explaining how you really don’t have time for disrespectful girls who don’t value your time.
Do this in a polite way, and you’ll hopefully come across as a ‘high-value’ busy guy, not an asshole.
Step 3. You enjoy your date with the other woman
The woman you cancelled on will either think you’re an asshole and not rearrange to meet you again. Or she’ll be on time for the rest of the time you’re dating. I hate late girls enough to take that risk.
Below is an example of what happened with the woman in the screenshots above.
The next time she gave me a full play-by-play of her being on time for a 19.00 date. We’re still dating now and she’s always punctual.
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*I get a lot of pushback on the morality of double-booking dates. The sad truth is: women are just as harsh. Most women will happily cancel on a date if someone better invites them out at the last minute. I wish it wasn’t this way. When I double-book dates, one normally flakes altogether. This is my way of ensuring I get one date on any given evening.