This is a fundamental issue that prevents guys from the seduction community from being able to keep women in their lives for more than a few dates.
Hey, it’s Ciaran.
You had a fun date with a great connection, and amazing sex.
Yet, somehow she still doesn’t want to see you again?
This is a common problem among guys learning pick-up – and it’s nearly always for the same reason.
So, here’s a question I want you to ask yourself.
“What did you actually like about the last woman you slept with?”
For most ‘pick-up guys’, it’ll be little beyond her face, her body and the fact she liked him.
That is a huge problem.
Women are far more emotionally perceptive than men. They can sense when you don’t care about their personality.
Especially in the bedroom!
She wants to feel an intimate emotional connection during sex, but with most ‘pick-up guys’, she doesn’t get that.
Because they don’t care about her.
They just care about ‘getting the lay’ and what that means about them.
No wonder she doesn’t want to meet up for Round 2.
Now, I completely understand why ‘pick-up guys’ are prone to feeling this way.
Most have been physically disconnected from women for so long that ‘getting laid’ is all that matters.
They’ve been emotionally disconnected for so long that they can’t see women as real people!
Their self-esteem was previously so low that ‘sexual validation’ is all they want!
And most pick-up coaches aren’t teaching guys to value a woman’s personality, or to even care what she’s like as a person.
The problem is: this mindset will stop women wanting to stick around!
It will also stop you enjoying the time you spend with women. Honestly, if you just see her as an object, you’ll have just as much fun in bed with a fleshlight! The best sex comes from intimacy and emotional connection.
If you can’t keep women in your life beyond the first few dates, I urge you to book one of my free consultations while they’re still available.
On this call, we’ll talk about your sticking points with the opposite sex and create a gameplan to help you overcome them.
You deserve a genuine connection with women who actually fufil you.