In this post, you’ll learn a powerful exercise that will give the mental strength to never give up on your self-improvement journey – or anything else.
Hey, it’s Ciaran.
Game is tough. Most guys aren’t ready for the rejections or to face up to their weaknesses.
In fact, most people who ‘discover game’ give up before they see any level of success.
Today, I’m here to make sure you don’t do that.
You’ve probably heard about the importance of having a strong ‘why’ before, right?
Tons of gurus will tell you to focus on
you want to achieve a certain goal – and that this will stop you quitting during tough times. why
But I’m going to tell you to do the complete opposite.
I want you to write down how much it will suck to stay the same.
Fear is a more powerful catalyst than ambition. So, I want you to write down all the ways that staying the same has hurt you.
If you’re trying to overcome shyness or social anxiety, your list might say:
I’m lonely all the time;
I’m not being invited to parties;
I feel uncomfortable and awkward at the parties I do go to;
I’m not enjoying as many memorable experiences with women;
I’m not having sex;
It feels like I’m wasting my youth;
My chances of starting a family with a great woman are slipping away;
If I ever do meet my dream woman, I’m most likely going to mess it up.
This list should be so painful that it makes you cry. You need to show yourself that giving up will be more painful than carrying on with your mission.
In my work helping men improve their dating lives, this is an exercise I regularly recommend to my clients.
Feel free to download this e-book and to complete this nasty exercise if you’re unhappy with your dating life.
Best of luck,