That ‘One Special Girl’

 That ‘One Special Girl’

A message for guys trying to make it work with their one special crush.

I’ll probably share this post with anyone in our Game Global Network who mentions their ‘one special girl’ or crush.

The message usually goes like this:

“There’s this one special girl at school/college/work and I think she’s so great – but I don’t think she likes me. Can I get her?”

The answer is a tentative yes.

But the solution is to become good with women in general.

In spite of what TV shows and movies will tell you, girls really aren’t into guys who obsess over them when they’ve only just started dating.

They don’t want to be treated like a perfect princess during the early days of courtship.

Because she knows she’s NOT a perfect princess.

She’s a normal girl who does smelly farts and wears silly socks at Christmas.

When guys start treating her like God’s gift to the planet – despite barely knowing her – it only serves to make her lose attraction.

Because she knows any guy who is used to dating hot women wouldn’t treat her like this.

With your overly affectionate behaviour, you’ve proved you’re not the prize.


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So please forget about buying flowers, writing poems or obsessing over Instagram picture. Save that for when you’re in a relationship.

In the meantime, focus on dating around and getting good with women in general.

Ironically, that’s probably the best strategy to make that ‘one special woman’ notice you in the first place.

However, by this time, you may have an even better woman on your radar…

Our free e-book How To Meet Women Anywhere is a great starting point to help guys improve their game.

Joe Elvin

Joe is a freelance lifestyle writer and co-founder at Game Global. His book 'Big Dick Energy' teaches men how to unleash their natural masculine energy and attract amazing women. His book 'The Camera Never Lies' reveals the 17 lessons he learned after filming his dating life for a year. You can learn more at

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