Here’s a 30-second fix for you…
Hey, it’s Ciaran.
This question did so much to help eliminate my fear of rejection.
Maybe it will help you too…
“What are they actually rejecting?”
Ask it to yourself now – and every time you feel that sting of a woman saying “no”.
They’re not rejecting “you”, are they? They don’t even know you.
If you get blown out within a minute of talking to her, they probably don’t know about your hobbies and passions.
They don’t know about all the great things you’ve done for other people.
They barely know anything!
You could be a pro footballer or the CEO of an international charity – and she wouldn’t have a clue!
All she’s rejecting is that glimpse of your personality that you give her in the initial moments of meeting.
That first impression is part of what I teach people to improve in my 1-on-1 mentoring sessions.
“But Ciaran, what about Covid-19? It’s a global pandemic?!”
Yes, so I heard…
The thing is: I know several guys, including many of my students who are still approaching women and landing dates in this ‘new normal’ landscape.
I’ve adopted several strategies to put a woman at ease when approaching during Covid season.
If you want to hear about those, the best thing you can do is book a FREE 30-minute consultation with me before they run out.
In these calls, we’ll create a gameplan for you to smash your dating life in 2021. I can offer advice on whatever sticking points are currently holding you back.