When You Don’t ‘Feel Like’ Meeting Women

 When You Don’t ‘Feel Like’ Meeting Women

How I motivated myself to go out and meet women consistently

Hey, it’s Ciaran.

There are a lot of similarities between learning game and building muscle at the gym.

The key to success with both is simple, in theory.

Turn up regularly. Put in the reps. Become stronger. Try something tougher.

With that cycle in place, how could you fail??

The reason is: people don’t ‘feel like’ turning up.

They give in to their excuses. They skip a few days. That turns into a few months.

Eventually, years pass…

And nothing has changed.

They’re still desperately unhappy with their body (or their results with women).


In my early years of approaching women or going to the gym, I never ‘felt like’ doing it.

I’d always tell myself I was tired. Or I’d had a tough day. Or that I’d met enough women this week.

But I always went out and put in the reps, anyway.

Often, I’d babystep myself into doing it.

When meeting women, I told myself I’d do a couple of approaches, then go home if I wanted.

But once I’d spoken to a couple of hotties, I usually ‘felt like’ meeting more.

Ultimately, it became a habit to put in the reps whether I felt like it or not.

Eventually, years passed…

And everything has changed.

I’m now dating several intimidatingly beautiful women…

A common tip for sticking to a gym habit is to invest in a personal trainer.

They’ll show you how to improve quickly, and also motivate you to show up more often.

That’s because you won’t want to waste the money you paid them.

I like to think of myself as a ‘personal trainer’ of game in that sense.

When my clients begin working with me, they learn exactly how to improve their interactions with women. Plus, they also go out to meet more women than ever before!

These guys want to make the most of my coaching…and most of them do!

I recently had three clients commit to meeting 100 women in the next 50 days – and already they’re all seeing improvements in how women respond to them.

Amazing things happen when you put in the reps 💪🏿


If you want a chat with me about how you can meet more women, go on more dates and have more intimacy, book a free call with me now.

On these calls, we can build a gameplan to help you gain an abundance of women in your life within the next 30 days.

Spaces are limited so click here to book now >>.


Ciaran Callam

I take men who don’t know how to meet women & give them an abundance they never dreamed possible. I take meek mice & turn them into wild lions. If you follow my instructions I’ll change your life, and that’s a fact.

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