How I Learned About Freedom From Outcome

 How I Learned About Freedom From Outcome

This is feels like a lesson we need to experience, before we truly learn it.

Hey, it’s Ciaran.

We all logically know that being ‘needy’ is bad.

Yet, it seems we all still have to make that mistake in our journey to becoming a truly attractive man.

It’s not until we repel a great women through neediness that the idea is truly cemented.

Years ago, I was dating a woman and we’d already had great sex TWICE.

Then, on the third date, I was stressed from a tough week and really wanting to sleep with her again. But, this time, it came from a different selfish mindset.

She picked up on that and said she wasn’t in the mood. I got agitated, and started trying all these PUA ‘methods’ to talk her into it. It never happened and we never saw each other again.

You better believe I learned from that experience.


Now, if a woman doesn’t want to have sex with me, I am completely happy to stop escalating and watch South Park on the laptop.

These days, I don’t need sex with any particular woman on any particular night.

The funny thing is: whenever I show this freedom from outcome, the women end up pouncing on me anyway.

Crazy how that works…

Anyway, if you want to have a deeper discussion on how to stop being so needy with women, I still have some spaces left for a FREE 30-minute coaching consultation.

In this call, we’ll discuss your sticking points with the opposite sex and create a gameplan for you to SMASH your dating goals in 2021.

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Speak soon,


Ciaran Callam

I take men who don’t know how to meet women & give them an abundance they never dreamed possible. I take meek mice & turn them into wild lions. If you follow my instructions I’ll change your life, and that’s a fact.

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