Hey, it’s Ciaran.
If you want to be liked by everyone, your best bet is to filter all unique parts of your personality, smile, take no risks and try to ‘fit in’ with all the normals.
That’s a great strategy to have everyone think you’re ‘kind-of OK’.
But it’s a horrible strategy to have anyone truly care about you or what you’re doing in life – especially beautiful women.
None of these hotties are dating men they think are ‘alright’.
No! If you want to succeed with women and in life, you need to be willing to be disliked by some.
In fact, all of the best success I’ve ever had socially and professionally has come from doing my own thing.
Last week, I posted a video titled ‘How To Stop Self-Sabotaging’ about facing the demon inside you. I was so scared to put that video out, because I put my soul into that. It might have hurt if people didn’t like it – but most seem to have absolutely loved it.
Years ago, I embarked on a challenge called 100 Women In 50 Days , in which I approached two women on the street for 50 days straight to get rid of my approach anxiety.
I blogged about this and shared it on my personal Facebook. Some of the people who hated it still don’t like me to this day, but it also led to me meeting people like ICE WHITE and JOE ELVIN – and that’s why Game Global exists today.
It also led to men around the world telling me they were deeply inspired and to keep going…
We all have a choice to make. That includes you too…
Are you going to do big things and accept people that some might dislike it?
Or are you happy blending in the crowd?
It’s up to you – but life is short.
I have seen plenty of interviews with super-old people asking them about their regrets – and they nearly all mention playing it safe and not doing what they really wanted.
So, let me ask you?
Have you been doing all the things you really want with your time on Earth? If not, why not?
If you want to talk about this one-on-one, you can book a free Skype call with me and we can have a chat.
I’ve been helping guys address their social and sexual problems for free throughout the quarantine, and it would be great if you were next.