Here’s what I’d say if I gather them all in one room…
Hey, it’s Ciaran.
If I could gather all the women who ever rejected me into a room today, do you know what I would say?
I’d say: “Thank You”.
Want to know why?
It’s because: when a woman rejects you for being needy or unconfident, she’s actually doing you a favour.
She’s showing you where you’re lacking. She’s showing where you need to improve.
Most importantly of all, she’s (hopefully) giving you the motivation to step up and become a better man.
If the women I approached a decade ago accepted this shy unconfident version of Ciaran, I’d probably still be like that today.
- no personal growth.
- no successful coaching business.
- no opportunities to sleep with all the amazing women I’ve met over the last few years (who are generally way hotter).
Worse yet, the relationships I would have ten years ago would have been fuelled by neediness and insecurity.
So will yours if you don’t feel worthy of a relationship with a beautiful woman. It’s called codependency.
And that’s why I also want you to feel grateful for any opportunity you have to be rejected by a woman.
Because that’s an opportunity to grow into a stronger more powerful version of yourself.
Keep going and you’ll eventually become that seemingly flawless hero that your gorgeous wife and adorable kids are in awe of.
This all leads to one obvious question…
“Hey Ciaran, what if I don’t know why women are rejecting me? What I have no idea what I’m doing wrong?”
Well, the answer to that question is: then you should get help from a coach.
I have added a few more time slots to my camera for those who want to book a free consultation call with me.
On this call, we can discuss any problem that’s holding you back in your romantic life. Together, we’ll come up with a solution to get you on the road to dating the women you really want.